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\"5-Sure-Signs-Your-Hookup-Game-Needs-an-Upgrade\"<\/a>It\u2019s happened to the best of us. You\u2019re going out with friends, you\u2019re meeting women, and maybe even ending the night with them. But then you notice something is different. It didn\u2019t happen all it once, but suddenly you\u2019re off your game. Jokes aren\u2019t landing right, women aren\u2019t responding to you, and even your most reliable plays are just making everyone around you uncomfortable. You look up at the bartender and he\u2019s chuckling at your best attempt to get this girl to talk to you. Embarrassed, you decide not to tip him the next time he makes you a drink. Petty? Yes. But hey, you need to soothe your ego, right? Not that I\u2019m speaking from experience\u2026.<\/p>\n

Some of us are purely single men in the hookup scene or relationship men who left it behind. – Take the test: 27 signs your not the relationship type <\/a>– Most of us, however, spend years in the hookup scene before we find a good relationship. Until that point, though, you need to learn to date and how to improve when you feel like your game is getting stale. Once the bartender is laughing at you, it\u2019s time to take a good, hard look at yourself and pinpoint where you need improvement. For that brave, introspective man, here are 5 sure signs your hookup game needs an upgrade.
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5. You only have one play in the playbook, and it\u2019s costing you.<\/h3>\n

Maybe you\u2019re the guy at the bar who buys expensive drinks for every single girl you find. That\u2019s great if it\u2019s working. Use that play too much, however, and you will quickly see that many women are unimpressed by the size of your wallet, especially if that\u2019s all you have going for you. Buying a woman a drink is, admittedly, clich\u00e9. However, it works well for meeting that girl with the cute smile over there (don\u2019t look right at her! C\u2019mon man, be cool). It\u2019s classy and polite, but more importantly it is a fantastic ice-breaker. Buy her a drink, not twelve drinks, and show that judgmental bartender that this isn\u2019t your first rodeo. The hookup scene is a chess tournament, so don\u2019t get stuck only using your pawns.
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