{"id":573,"date":"2015-09-28T21:45:16","date_gmt":"2015-09-28T21:45:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/?p=573"},"modified":"2015-07-03T17:17:50","modified_gmt":"2015-07-03T17:17:50","slug":"5-things-not-to-say-on-a-first-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/index.php\/5-things-not-to-say-on-a-first-date\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Things NOT to Say on a First Date"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"5-Things-NOT-to-Say-on-a-First-Date\"<\/a>First dates are always stressful. Whether you are looking for The One or just trying to get in her pants, you need to make the right impression. Wearing the right clothes, making the right dinner choices, smelling the right way\u2026there are a lot of variables that can determine whether you secure a second date<\/a>, take her home, or get a flimsy excuse about her dog being sick and a phone number with six digits. The only advantage you have in this position is that she is likely also very nervous and worrying about the same things, so any faux pas you may commit could be overlooked. No matter the situation, however, conversation has to go smoothly throughout the evening. That means no lengthy awkward pauses and saying all of the right things. At the very least, don\u2019t say any of the following if you want to ever see her again.
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5. \u201cYou look really nice tonight.\u201d<\/h3>\n

Just like you, your date probably spent a considerable chunk of time choosing her outfit, fixing her hair and makeup, and generally aiming to wow you when you see her tonight. When they put in so much effort to look sexy, giving a generic compliment like \u201cnice\u201d or \u201cpretty\u201d does little to boost her self-esteem. You use \u201cnice\u201d to describe the cashier at the bank, not your date and possible future sex partner. Here is some tips for getting lucky on the 1st date<\/a>. Use specifics when you compliment her, and show her that you notice the extra effort she put in. Also, many guys are afraid to use the word \u201csexy\u201d on the first date, thinking it\u2019s too forward, but that\u2019s exactly what she\u2019s aiming for!
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4. \u201cMy ex and I used to came here.\u201d<\/h3>\n

Mentioning anything about your ex or past flings during the first date is a risky move, and is generally best avoided. You are trying to start something new here, and commenting on your ex-girlfriend will make your date think one of two things: either you\u2019re comparing this girl to your ex<\/a>, or you still miss your ex. Either way, she probably doesn\u2019t want to hear it. Don\u2019t be that guy.
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3. \u201cDo you want kids?\u201d<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re the kind of guy who is looking for your future wife, then you should definitely ask these questions to any woman you think could be The One. That being said, the first date is definitely NOT the time to ask your date if she wants kids<\/a>. Leave personal questions like this for future dates and deeper conversations. This includes talking about marriage and emotional topics like her mother\u2019s relentless battle with cancer and how it makes her feel. Keep the first date light and get to know each other on a surface level before diving in deep and seeing if she is the girl you marry.
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