{"id":716,"date":"2016-07-31T18:36:21","date_gmt":"2016-07-31T18:36:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/?p=716"},"modified":"2016-07-02T16:32:41","modified_gmt":"2016-07-02T16:32:41","slug":"how-to-tell-if-she-had-an-orgasm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/index.php\/how-to-tell-if-she-had-an-orgasm\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Tell If She Had An Orgasm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/index.php\/top-hook-up-sites\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/How-To-Tell-If-She-Had-An-Orgasm.jpg\" alt=\"How-To-Tell-If-She-Had-An-Orgasm\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-722\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/How-To-Tell-If-She-Had-An-Orgasm.jpg 450w, https:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/How-To-Tell-If-She-Had-An-Orgasm-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/hookupmanual.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/How-To-Tell-If-She-Had-An-Orgasm-250x167.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a>Thanks to out buddy\u2019s sexual horror stories and pop culture movies like When Harry Met Sally (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=vmSpCLefjnw\" target=\"_blank\">Watch The Trailer<\/a>), every guy is always worried now whether or not she\u2019s \u201cfaking it.\u201d Even if a guy says he\u2019s confident that she is climaxing every time and isn\u2019t worried, a small part of him wonders if his girlfriend is just a fantastic actress and trying to spare his feelings. Wouldn\u2019t it be great if you could know, and I mean really know, if she is actually having an orgasm? <\/p>\n<p>Scientists study everything that even seems remotely cool, so obviously there is a broad field of sexual research that says there are certain <a href=\"https:\/\/www.livestrong.com\/article\/24803-orgasm\/\" target=\"_blank\">physiological signs<\/a> that everyone can see when someone has an orgasm. His or her pupils will dilate, breathing begins to quicken and then get cut short right before the moment of climax, skin gets very red and flushed, and usually there is even ejaculation (more obvious for men than women). These studies, however, have been conducted in laboratory settings on small groups of participants, and don\u2019t accurately convey how diverse each person is, how rough or passionate the sex is, if they are trying to keep themselves quiet or screaming themselves hoarse, or if your girlfriend maybe just orgasms with little to know sign at all. Using scientific definitions to describe every person is difficult, and most of the details in the research descriptions of orgasm can be faked by your girlfriend who wasn\u2019t quite there, but thinks you tried very hard and deserved an ego boost.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3> Not All Women Are The Same<\/h3>\n<p>The honest truth is that all women are different when it comes to how obviously they are reaching climax, and it can entirely depend on the way she got there too. Some women are just loud and very obvious when they\u2019re orgasming, through no fault of their own. In long relationships, you can often pick up on little cues like how she bites her lip and turns her head, or that she tenses up her entire upper body, or that she moans and screams to loud that the cops are called. Again. Other women though are extremely subtle about when they orgasm and you may not even notice it\u2019s happening until it\u2019s over. Some orgasms are just less intense than others depending on the sex. Other times, like if you\u2019re just slowly teasing her over a long period of time, it\u2019ll be an extremely powerful (and likely extremely noticeable) orgasm.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VjKTmfz0fgI\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><\/p>\n<h3> Some Orgasm Clues Are Universal<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re worried that your girl is<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.com\/sex-love\/advice\/a1632\/Reasons-You-Dont-Have-an-Orgasm\/\" target=\"_blank\"> not reaching climax <\/a>at all, or that she is faking an intense orgasm when she was really nowhere close, there are a couple physical cues that happen to almost all women when they\u2019re close to reaching orgasm that she won\u2019t even be thinking about or able to fake. Orgasm tends to make our bodies rigid as our muscles tense up against the rush of brain chemical stuff (I\u2019m not a neuroscientist). So, there are ways you can gauge how her body is tensing as you have sex and figure out how close she is to finishing. And if she is focusing hard enough on faking these rhythmic tense-release moments to fool you, then the sex must be so boring that you\u2019re lucky she is even trying to fake it at all.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Its All In The Touch<\/h3>\n<p>If you are curious how close she is to climax and happen to have a hand free during sex, grab her hand and let her squeeze as she enjoys. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/sex-women\/female-orgasm-explained\" target=\"_blank\">Click Here To learn how long the average woman takes to climax<\/a>. The body rhythmically tenses faster and faster as she gets closer, and you\u2019ll be able to feel this by letting her squeeze your hand involuntarily each time she tenses up. If she isn\u2019t tensing up at all, or very infrequently, she isn\u2019t close yet. It doesn\u2019t mean she isn\u2019t enjoying the sex! Just that she\u2019s in that sweet spot where it feels good, but not building up to the climax yet. Once she gets close, you\u2019ll be able to feel how tense her hand gets. It\u2019ll basically be a vice grip as she\u2019s coming, and there is no way you can miss it. You don\u2019t need to hold her hand the entire time, but can just do this to subtly gauge where she\u2019s at and establish intimacy during sex.<\/p>\n<p>If you are not in any positions to get a hand free or hold hers while you guys destroy your sheets, you can feel this same rhythmic tensing and relaxing in her vagina (and anus if you\u2019re into that sort of thing) through your penis. This is often tougher for men to recognize since you\u2019re trying to enjoy yourself at the same time, so it may require a little practice to notice. Once you learn how to feel it, though, then you can use this to pace yourself with her and try to build up and finish at the same time. 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