We all have an image of what creepy is, but it is rarely defined. For women being “creepy”, especially when having sex is about doing something that makes someone uncomfortable, or threatened. Someone who is creepy makes those around them feel uneasy. If you are doing things during sex that is not wanted by your mate, too quick, too hard, or just plain not what they want, you are being creepy. You may not even be aware of what you are doing, that is why it is important to read her cues, and pay special attention to her body language if you want to hold onto her. There are things that you may be doing that you think are hot. The truth is that they may not be. Before you go assuming that you have all the moves, check yourself to make sure you aren’t doing these creepy things to your hookup.

Commenting on her physical attributes in a creepy way
If you are coming right out and telling her that she has a juicy butt, or engorged nipples, that is just creepy. It is okay to comment on how she looks in a classy way, but if you are ogling over her body, that is just plain creepy. Women like to be complimented, but not in an inappropriate way that makes them feel uncomfortable. Drooling about, or pointing out things about her private parts is not going to be something that she finds flattering. Don’t be creepy by staring at places that are personal. It is okay to admire the female body, just don’t comment about it in ways that will make her feel uncomfortable.

Being Anthony Wiener
If you think that sending her pictures of your junk is a good way to turn her on, think again. Girls don’t admire the male body the way that you admire theirs. When you send them pictures of your penis, a la Anthony Wiener, that is just creepy. No girl is going to be turned on by a picture of your member and a caption that says, “want some of this”. No matter how big it is, or how you dress it up (even more creepy), it just isn’t cool. Pictures of your anatomy make women uncomfortable. Period.

Stalking her in real life, or virtual
Your hookup is supposed to be no strings attached. If you are following her around either physically or virtually, that is just creepy. It makes a woman feel uneasy that a man would be checking out her ever move. It is a very controlling way to approach your relationship and a surefire way to turn her off. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that posting 20 times to her Facebook page is engaging with her. That is just plain being creepy. Don’t get in her face 24/7. The key is to back off.
 

 
Being too forward
She is your hookup. Even if there comes a point where you may want to have something more with her, keep it to yourself for a while. If you meet her and suddenly you are talking about wedding dates, you are going to make her run, and run fast. Being too forward is creepy. There are things that you want to tell her like you like hooking up with her and things you don’t, like you want to have babies with her. Be very cautious about letting the crazy out too early.

Trying too hard to impress
She doesn’t want a strip tease. Nope, you dancing around in your underwear is not going to turn her on. If you think that you being sexy is going to turn her on, chances are good the only thing that it will be good for is a laugh. Women don’t think that a guy who is supposed to be masculine, but rather trying to be sexy, is cool. If you want to be sexy, act aloof like a man should. Save the dancing and prancing for when you are alone please.

Trying to impress her in other ways
She is your hookup the only thing she cares about is great sex. The size of your wallet has nothing to do with it. If you start trying to impress her with a resume type list of all the things you are and have, you are going to have her looking for a new hookup. Just focus on her, make her feel good, and give her the sex she wants! Do that and you will have a very happy hookup partner.