Whoa, the dreaded sex-buddy status. But is it really so bad? It is a sight better than the even more dreaded friend zone status. Go Here To Learn How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone. At least as a sex buddy you get the fun stuff and are allowed to enjoy a few benefits that you don’t get to do while sequestered in the friend zone. However, if you’re looking for a romance and a lifelong commitment, sex buddies aren’t really what you want. You’ll need to decide what you want out of your relationship with this girl before trying to decipher what she’d like out of the situation.

Sign #1 – Wherever You Are, She Is

Before the first kiss is ever achieved, you can tell if she is mostly just down for a sex buddy relationship by her general attitude toward sex. A good way to tell is next time you’re in mixed company with her and a sexual situation is brought up, notice her reaction. Is she embarrassed? Shy? Does she meet your eye with a introverted smile, or does she look you dead in the eye with a sexy glint and laugh harder than anyone at the table? You can tell a lot by her general body language and lack of figidity.

Sign #2 – She Doesn’t Give a Damn

Let’s say she’s giving you the sexy eye all night and you start talking. You dig each other but it doesn’t seem to be an immediate need situation. If your eye is still wandering despite your interest and you notice she may be doing the same, there’s a good chance she is a sex buddy candidate. She recognizes your hotness and gravitates toward it but she also sees the hotness in others. When you know perfectly well she would love to be with you, and you feel the same, but you both see the potential in other nights and other people, you know that she is probably ready to be a sex buddy.

Sign #3 – Up for Anything

If you and all the guys from the office decide to head over to the local bar for a couple of cold ones, plan on doing nothing but watching the game, telling fart jokes and conducting burp contests, but a couple gals from the office still want to tag along, consider them possible fuck buddies. They obviously are up for anything and gentlemanly behavior isn’t part of it. They don’t care if you open the door and pull out their chair. They just want you to be funny, have jokes and be a probably good fuck.
 

 

Sign #4 – She Doesn’t Always Show

Another sign that could point to impending fuckbuddydom is that she doesn’t always keep your dates. Even if it’s something you both love doing and has nothing to do with sex, or especially if its sexually related and she cancels or just plain ol’ doesn’t show, it might be a sign she doesn’t want a serious relationship but is only interested in a sex buddy type friendship that doesn’t take much effort other than deciding what to do. If she decides at the last minute that eating sushi with her best bud is more important than pizza and Netflix at your house with the rest of your buds, don’t get offended.

Sign #5 – She Leaves Immediately After

Sex is great and you always have a good time with her. Its uncomplicated and comfortable and she doesn’t mind letting her feelings be known. You can tell by the way she jumps out of bed immediately after sex. After all the general hygiene and pleasantries are taken care of she shoots the gap. It isn’t an insult. She is always back for more and you both enjoy each other’s company but she has no qualms wiggling out of your passionate arms and on down the road. Walk of Shame? More like, Walk of Fame, because to her, you were the conquest. It is only a bad thing if you have any kind of designs on a real relationship because she clearly does not.

There are many signs that the woman in question is willing to enter a sex buddy relationship with you. The key is to be able to pick up on the subtle signs that are given in these very touchy situations. Pay attention to the small things. When and where she laughs, how she touches you, how she talks to you and what she talks about are all ways you can tell what she is interested in. The easiest way to tell if she’s interested in a sex buddy relationship is just to ask her. The worst that can happen is she tells you no. She will have a little thought nugget to save for later, though. She may also tell you yes. She may say exactly what you were hoping she were and agree to a no strings attached sexual relationship with you. Try watching for the aforementioned hints or ask her yourself. Take a chance.