The girl-girl-guy threesome is almost mythological. It’s referenced constantly in pop culture, there are tons of porn scenes all about it, and most guys would admit to fantasizing about it. Sadly, just a tiny percentage of men have actually experienced one, mostly because it’s really hard to pull off, even if you’re working through a sex dating site. It’s possible though and if you get a little lucky and play your cards right you’ll have a threesome. Hopefully the advice that follows will help you use casual dating sites to have a threesome (3-Way).

It’s okay to swing for the fences

The least likely way to make a threesome happen is to contact two girls via a casual dating site. They’re the rarest of combinations and they’ll be exceptionally picky because they’ll have any guy they want to choose from. Generally that means everyone but the best looking dudes with the hottest bodies are excluded. If you fall into that category then you’re a lucky man. If you don’t there’s no harm in sending an email to the girl-girl couple but you can’t count on that actually working out.

Instead you should meet one wild girl

The most successful route to a threesome is to meet a girl and sexually romance a single girl and convince her to find another girl for you guys to hook up with. Luckily, the girls most likely to have a threesome are going to be found on a sex dating site and be willing to hook up. Scour the profiles looking for bisexual or bicurious girls and in your message don’t even mention a threesome. Instead concentrate all your efforts on building a great sexual relationship with her. Your best chance at expanding it to a threesome is to get her off over and over again and to make it supremely satisfying. That way she’ll want to hook up for an extended period of time and try new things to keep the wild times going.

The threesome should be about her

Dirty little secret about most threesomes: they’re about the girl exploring her bisexuality in a safe environment. Porn threesomes don’t help guys in this way since they always seem to be about two ladies servicing the dude’s dong. That doesn’t really happen. Instead, it’s about two girls that have bisexual feelings they’re not quite in touch with looking to dip their toes in that girl on girl pool while being with a guy so they don’t have to commit. This also explains why threesomes often go wrong with the guy on the outside looking in. Can you imagine anything sadder than working hard to make a threesome happen only to find that your girl is more interested in vagina and you don’t get any of the action you wanted?

That’s really your only option though, which is why when you’re on the sex dating site you should try to hookup with bisexual girls. If they’re openly bisexual and have had experiences they’re perfect for a good threesome since they’ll be happy to get wild with a girl while attending to your needs too. No matter what type of girl you’re dealing with it’s important to let her know that you want it to be about everyone’s pleasure and that you’d be okay just having sex with her but are excited to try something new. In essence, if she thinks you just want to screw another girl the threesome will never happen. That should be less of an issue with a hook up from a sex dating site than it would be with an actual girlfriend.