You see her from across the room. Stunning. Gorgeous, even. This woman is, by far, the most amazing looking woman you have ever seen. The other men in the bar easily spotted her class and sophistication as she made her way to the bar. The whole establishment seemed to gain elegance by the cocktail glass full just by her presence. As your mind is racing through the success rate of each pick-up line you know, it suddenly dawns on you that this woman is out of your league. Nothing you say and nothing you have will impress her. So what do you do?

Your first course of action should be to drop all stereotypes. Just because she is gorgeous doesn’t mean she is conceited. In fact, it is the most beautiful women in the world who are often the loneliest. Many men will automatically assume that her beauty means her calendar is full every night. For some dazzling women, this is true. Conceited women come in all shapes, sizes and countenances, however. Regardless of what she looks like, she can actually be a nice, kind person.

Confidence Is Key

When approaching a woman who is obviously out of your league you must exude confidence. Here are some body language tips to help you exude confidence. This is nonnegotiable. You must have so much confidence that it is coming out of your ears. There must also be equal amounts of warm-heartedness and authenticity. As we stated, confidence is a must but it must not be accompanied by bravado or cockiness. That is only makes you look like a jerk. Confidence is possible without machismo.

Don’t use any type of pick up line you have ever heard or used before. Beautiful women have heard them all. Any pick up line you have ever used, she is sure to have heard 1000 times. Be original. If you are confident enough to approach her, you can come up with an original way to say hello. If all else fails, you can always just simply say Hello. A soft smile, friendly handshake and warm introduction goes a long way when meeting a beautiful woman.

Dress For Success

Always, and I mean, always, look your best. This might mean toning up a little pudge or changing your eating habits. If this is a woman you see on a fairly regular basis you have to always be prepared. Prepared for what, you might ask? Anything. A quick hello that leaves your delicious cologne lingering in her memory for hours or an impromptu lunch date with conversation that leaves her mind stimulated for hours. Be ready to do anything when you see her. If she wants to grab some coffee and take a walk, be ready. Swimming, golf, Netflix and chill, whatever it is be ready to do it and look great in the process.

Always Be Yourself

Most importantly of all, may be just being you. Be your authentic self in her presence. Talk about your real interests and concerns. It is ok to be interested in what she likes but if you don’t know much about it, be real. Ask questions. Show an interest that is authentic not feigned. Don’t be fake about anything and definitely do not lie. That is a one-way ticket all the way past the friend zone into acquaintance village.

Finally, you want to give her plenty of space and not be needy or clingy. Women of a certain stature have made it that far because they have confidence and go for the things they want. This means they don’t need anyone in their lives. They may want a partner or sex buddy or close friends in their lives but they by no means need them. They live their lives based on their own decisions alone. They need no one to reassure them of their choices or actions. If she doesn’t text you back in 15 minutes it is because she is working, cleaning, paying bills or other such grown-up activities. She isn’t out crawling the bars or hooking up on the dance floor. Women of her ilk can have any man they’d like. It would take as little as a call or text.

What is important is that you try and you try in an authentic way. If you approach her and the entire relationship with authenticity and honesty, you will find quite an exciting experience. The benefits of dating a woman who is out of your league is that she can teach you things you would never have a chance to experience in other situations. The bottom line is that you cannot let this opportunity pass you by. It is entirely possible that you may never have another opportunity like this in your lifetime. It isn’t that high caliber women only date others in their social circle but more so that men are afraid to ask out women who are in a higher social status. So, go on. Take a chance.