Believe it or not, your mouth has a lot more to do with seduction than you think it does. Oh sure, there are one or two sure-fire ways every guy knows how to seduce with his mouth but those are obvious, worn out, stand-bys. There are other ways that the smart guys have been aware of for centuries that can really help the average Joe’s of the world. There is so much that isn’t sexually related that we can do with our mouths that go much farther, much faster. You don’t have to go X-rated to get her attention and keep it. As a matter of fact, the longer you wait to get down and dirty the better off you’ll be. Check out all the amazing seductive things you can do with your mouth that women just can’t seem to resist.
 

Let’s Talk About Talk

The way you talk; your speech pattern and delivery, can be a big turn on. Women are attracted to men who communicate well. Use full, clear sentences and words longer than 5 letters when possible. Men who use long, more complex sentences see some signs of success. Speak with confidence and avoid long pauses. Experts tell us that women’s DNA are hardwired to look for certain characteristics in a potential mate. The ability to speak well signifies education and culture and subconsciously alerts her that you could possibly be a good provider. Women have been seduced by words and speech for centuries. Poets were like rock stars in the early centuries for just this reason. From Lord Byron to Shakespeare, there are words that make women swoon. Men don’t have to be professors or rocket scientists or great literary geniuses to sound good. All it takes is confidence and a smooth delivery. Luckily, these skills can be practiced, improved and mastered. Go over the topics of conversation you may run across before your date. Practice speaking in front of a mirror and your friends and family. Incorporate smiles and laughter into your conversations and remember to keep eye contact when speaking to your date. Strangely enough, it also helps to interrupt her. Studies have shown us that women constantly interrupt each other when in conversation by interjecting positive comments and approval. Interrupting for the wrong reason doesn’t work quite as well. Do not interrupt to contradict her or change the subject.
 

Nix the Adam Sandler Routine

While it is true that women are attracted to funny guys and being able to make her laugh is an important part of a relationship that lasts, for the initial impression its best to lose the perma-grin. Women see a healthy sense of humor as a sign of intelligence but studies have shown that women find men who smile a lot on initial meeting to be less attractive than those who do not. It seems that the dark, brooding look is great for attention grabbing. A few, charming, witty jokes interjected into the conversation is great, but constantly quipping and throwing out one-liners will get old and fast. Women prefer inclusive, positive jokes and are turned off by cruel jokes, put-downs and personal jabs. Researchers tell us that the opposite is true for men. They are attracted to women who smile wide and often as opposed to somber or introspective faces.
 

XXX’s and OOO’s

We can’t talk about ways to seduce her with your mouth without discussing kissing. Contrary to popular belief, there are good kissers and bad kissers.
It is important to remember to have clean teeth and fresh breath when you plan to give your date a kiss. The first kiss is of the utmost importance. Being a bad kisser can end the relationship before it ever starts. Women especially enjoy having their face held in both of your hands as you kiss her gently. Surveys of women have shown that they prefer little to no tongue on a first kiss but a fair amount of assertiveness. Keep it dry and make eye contact. Be sure of yourself and she will too.
 

The Big C

Last but not least we have the lovely cunnilingus. All men should learn to perform this sexual act for the women in their lives. Most women achieve their hardest orgasms during oral sex. If you are not performing it, you are not giving her the best of everything you can. There are many books and websites dedicated to perfecting this act and most women are happy to give helpful tips.