You’ve likely considered what would ruin a hook up for you. Maybe it’s the girl being a total ditz and unable to carry on a conversation. Maybe it’s hairy armpits or a really funky smell coming from her vaginal area. Guys have their reasons and so do the ladies. Below you can read about the top turn offs listed by women and make sure that you don’t make these mistakes.

Not taking care of yourself

A guy that doesn’t take care of himself is a guy that doesn’t have any self respect or self esteem because if he had either he wouldn’t leave the house looking like a bum. That’s the gist of the thought running through a woman’s head when you show up for you date looking bedraggled and it’s not at all appealing. You don’t have to be a square-jawed underwear model to get laid but you do need to make an effort. Get your hair cut and comb it. Shave your face. Wear a nice outfit. The bonus of doing all that is that you’ll exude confidence because you’ve behaved as though you’re worth all of that work. She’ll be into you and you’ll feel as though she should be. Confidence is the number one thing women mention as a sexy quality in a man, so do anything you can do boost it.

Not paying attention to her

This mistake comes in many forms but it’s always bad. You could be texting, taking a cell phone call, checking out another girl, staring at the waitress’s bottom as she walks away, etc. Women love it when a man listens to them and they really hate it when a man doesn’t pay attention. You can almost be assured that the hook up won’t happen if you’re not paying attention and she asks you about something she was talking about. It happens in relationships all the time and it happens in sex dating too. It’s not like you meet and jump right into bed. You have to get to know each other a little and if you can’t be bothered to pay attention to her for an hour or two you’re definitely not going to be good in bed, or at least that’s what she’ll feel.

Arrogance

I mentioned above that confidence is the sexiest quality a man can exude. Interestingly, arrogance is one of the least sexy qualities a man can exude. It seems like such a fine line, but in reality the two couldn’t be further from each other. Confidence is born from liking yourself and believing that others should like you too. It’s an infectious quality and a confident man is easily liked by others. Arrogance is born out of insecurity. An arrogant man doesn’t believe he’s worthy of being liked or loved and has to overcompensate by being arrogant. It’s a loathsome quality because it’s so obvious that arrogant guys are ultimately insecure little boys. Sometimes deeply insecure women are attracted to arrogant guys but it never lasts.
 

Being all about the sex

The worst thing you can do when trying to hook up is to be all about the sex. You’ve talked to her via the sex dating site, you’ve charmed her with your conversation, and now you’re on a date and ready to seal the deal. If all you can talk about is how good you’re going to make her feel and how big your dong is and how you can’t wait to be inside her it’s never going to happen. All she’s going to hear is that you want her vagina and couldn’t care less about the person it’s attached to. Even if that’s true you need to fake it.