Everyone wants to last longer in bed. It’s a well- known, scientific fact that it takes women much longer than men to reach orgasm. It is embarrassing for you and frustrating for her when things end to quickly. That being the case, we are always searching for that special technique that is going to give us the long-lasting edge we are looking for. There are chemicals aplenty for this type of situation but what most of us need are just the simple tips our own fathers used to keep the fires burning.

Don’t Think About It

Men have been using this technique for thousands of years. It is the same thing you would do if you were trying not to cry in public. You think about something else. Football, mom’s apple pie, the blankie you’re Nana gave you in 3rd grade; anything and everything that will keep you from reaching orgasm. Reciting facts is another great way to prolong the ending. Not out loud of course. She’s going to think you’re crazy if you start reciting the Gettysburg Address or counting backwards mid-coitus. In your mind, concentrate on reciting song lyrics or childhood nursery rhymes. The thing to remember with this technique is that it can make you a worse lover if you aren’t careful. You may be able to bang away for quite some time but you’re also pulling your attention away from your lover and that is definitely counterproductive.

Break-it Up

It sounds weird but another simple way to prolong intercourse is to stop it. Just for a few minutes, postpone intercourse for extended foreplay. For one to three minutes kiss your lover passionately, playfully and slowly. Caress each other and put some of those tips from the men’s magazines in place. Explore your lovers body into places you have never dared before. Make sure to do it slowly to ensure everyone is comfortable and feeling pleasure. Breaking even for pillow talk and some dirty little whispers can help slow things down too. It keeps your attention on your partner while taking your mind off what’s happening long enough to string words together. It also gives you a chance to really pay attention to everything about the experience, which in the end heightens the whole experience.

Rx to the Rescue

The pharmacy is a cornucopia of resources for extending the life of your sex life. Click here for a list of the most popular erection drugs. There are a plethora of gels and lubricants that work as topical pain killers and dull the feelings in the skin of the area. Latex rings and other tools can be used to restrict blood flow and slow the completion of orgasm. Along those same lines of thought, squeezing the penis just below the head will also slow the advance of ejaculation. There are also a variety of prescription meds available for those who can’t stop premature ejaculation no matter what they try. In some cases, it seems to
 

 

Prime it Up

Masturbation before date night isn’t a bad idea if your trying to keep your erection longer when you finally see your date. Most men cannot reach orgasm as quickly the second and third times in one day they have sex. Getting rid of that first shot is a great way to ensure it will last at least a little longer when you get between the sheets with your date. You may even need to do it more than once before the big hour approaches.

Third Time is the Charm

Don’t be afraid to keep on going after ejaculation if it happens to fast. You will have to shake things up a little more at that point, though. Use your fingers, mouth and toys. Switch positions and let your freak flag fly. Just because you reached orgasm quickly doesn’t mean you can’t take all the time in the world helping her reach her own. Pay attention to her sounds and movements. It is the roadmap to her orgasm.

Remain Calm

It’s easier said than done, especially if you’re with someone you are truly excited about, but staying calm and pacing yourself goes a long way in keep the lovemaking a long and pleasurable experience. Take notice of every little thing during the event. Note the smell of perfume and soft silken feeling of hair. Enjoy the feeling of your lover’s touch and breath. Extend each experience to its farthest reach.

We all want our sexual experiences to last as long as possible. It is a release and feeling of comfort that is hard to come by in any other capacity. We also strive to make the feeling mutual for our partners and a lot of that depends on the length of time we can keep it up. Any and all of the above tips can help make the moment last. If problems persist, its best to visit a doctor to check for more serious problems.